Saturday, March 16, 2013

How do we separate ourselves?

How many times have you heard the following phrases?  “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…be ye separate….” (II Corinthians 6:14, 17 KJV)  Or what about, “Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world.” (I John 2:15 KJV)  In reality, there are various denominations and religious affiliations that use the literal interpretation of these verses as a central part of their church doctrines.
 
In fact, the Holiness Movement emerged during the early 19th century as many church leaders taught believers to intentionally separate their lifestyles away from any appearance of being part of the world, be it abstaining from alcohol, dancing, gambling, dressing in certain attire as well as separating from people who are engaged in such activities.  Additionally, some pastors and churches even take separation to the next level by teaching separation to the second degree, or separating from believers or religious affiliations which refuse to separate from other believers or religious affiliations who will not withdraw from believers or religious affiliations who engage in worldliness and/or apostasy.

Obviously, there are many more passages about believers separating themselves from the world, such as.

“Do not love the world or anything in the world.  If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.  For everything in the world – the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and boasting of what he has and does – comes not from the Father but from the world.  The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.” (I John 2:15-17 NIV)

“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”   (James 1:27 NIV)
 
Another interesting part of the Holiness Movement that often gets overlooked is the concept of being able to lose one’s salvation, since it provides a motive for avoiding any appearance of worldliness.  Take for example the following verse, “It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.” (Romans 14:21 KJV)  Based of this verse alone, one could easily understand why so many believers are passionate about dressing and conducting themselves in a manner that conveys their personal convictions regarding holiness, especially since they want to avoid being held accountable for inadvertently causing anyone stumble in their faith.

However, believers need to remember their salvation no longer depends on their adherence to the Old Testament law, but rather their faith in Christ.  That is why the Apostle Paul later explains the believer’s freedom to do things, while at the same time he clarifies the responsibilities that come with freedom.

“All things are lawful…but all things are not expedient….” (I Corinthians 6:12 KJV)

“’Everything is permissible’ – but not everything is beneficial.  ‘Everything is permissible’ – but not everything is constructive.  Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.”   (I Corinthians 10:23-24 NIV)

In the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Galatians, he summarizes several of the sinful natures that we are to remove from our lives, as we submit our will over to the Holy Spirit.  [Other lists are located throughout the Bible, to include Romans 1:28-32, I Corinthians 6:9-10 and Colossians 3:5-9.]
         
“You, my brothers, were called to be free.  But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather serve one another in love….So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.  For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature.  They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want.  But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.  The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy, drunkenness, orgies, and the like.  I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.” (Galatians 5:13, 16 – 21 NIV)

The Word of God teaches that we are to remove the sinful natures from our lives, not necessarily remove the sinful people.  Rather, we are to be a positive influence on others, according to the precepts found in the Word of God, since we are a living testimony of the Holy Spirit working through our lives.  We are still instructed to use wisdom when choosing our closest friends, our spouses, our children’s friends and so on, as well as the leadership within our churches.  However, we do not want to end up like the Essenes, an ascetic sect of Jews, who chose to live in isolation until they became nonexistent.

Obviously, there are many different viewpoints on what steps believers should take to avoid any misperceptions about worldliness.  For example, does the Bible actually teach totally abstaining from alcoholic beverages or avoiding drunkenness?  Or does a believer’s particular “sphere of influence” make a difference in the matter, since a believer’s freedom permits people to participate in various activities as long as they are not offending others or causing them to stumble?  Say a family of believers has dinner every night at home with a glass of wine for each person, since none of them have any issues with drinking alcohol.  In this scenario, the believers are neither offending anyone nor causing them to stumble in their faith.  However, should this family of believers still have wine with their dinner, if they have a dinner guest who is a recovering alcoholic?

The same principles could be applied to other similar scenarios.  Does the Bible teach we are to dress in suits and dresses or in modesty?  The obvious answer is modesty, actually translated “good behavior.”  In other words, dressing in suits and dresses or like manner is subjective, or subject to a believer’s interpretation.  While dressing in “good behavior” is objective, as to the standard taught in the Word of God.  In general, there are many objective standards for our conduct.  On the contrary, believers and religious leaders need to take caution that their subjective interpretations of these standards do not trump the Word of God…especially when they mandate subjective standards on behalf of an entire congregation, denomination and/or religious affiliation.

As believers submit their will over to God and turn away from their sinful natures, the Holy Spirit guides them to serve one another in love.  Jesus Christ taught us the second greatest commandment – “Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Mark 12:31 NIV)  As a result, believers sometime wonder how they should handle situations that may seem beyond their control.  The Apostle Paul leaves the following reassuring words.  “And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.  But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.” (I Corinthians 10:13 NIV)

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